This morning I had a lengthy email exchange with someone I neither like nor trust but with whom I must work often. Because this person has shown themselves to be untrustworthy, I avoid phone calls with them whenever I can and conduct our conversations through email. I want a written record of everything we do so that when this person claims never to have said something or agreed to something or taken responsibility for something, I have the email chain as evidence.
This isn’t a way I like to work, and it’s annoying to me that I’m put in a position to have no choice but to work like this. I am grateful to have my email archive, however, and grateful to be able to come with receipts when I need them.
As I left work this afternoon, I saw an email that made it clear that I will be needing those receipts tomorrow. This is pretty fast turnaround between our initial conversation and the denial of said conversation, but sometimes that’s the way it happens. So I’ll go in a little early and download the necessary evidence and be ready for the mess when it spills into my space.
I really don’t like working like this, but that doesn’t mean I can’t. If folks want to be foolish, I’m ready for them.
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I get it. Good luck. Sorry you have to work this way.
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Thanks, Amy!
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I’ve soooo been there before! Best of luck with your situation.
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Thank you!
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Damn right! Been there over and over again, all the way down to the keeping the communication to a minimum and must be in writing. I’ve learned a lot about how toxic it is dealing with covert narcissists and I’m so grateful for my therapist! Good luck today!
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Thank you!
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Be careful. Hopefully he doesn’t read your blog!
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No worries that this person reads my blog! 😉
But I’m realizing that I never wrote the follow-up! Have to do that, maybe for tomorrow’s slice!
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